Am I over reacting????(LONG BUT PLZ READ)

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Okay so my older brother  (21) and I (18) got into an argument about a month ago, it was literally over 10 dollars, but since I've been really bitchy I told him he wasn't getting the money I owed him because he is so rude in general and ungrateful so I just went off on him!! Last year I had a miscarriage which was really a bad time for me and I'm now 26 weeks healthy with a baby girl! But anyways we were arguing and fighting for a good 30 minutes and he told me he hopes I have another miscarriage or that my baby comes out unhealthy and has a bunch of problems.. and that hurt me so bad and I lost it on him !! And haven't talked to him since and my mom says he wants to apologize and blah blah blah and that I need to make up with him and I'm like no??? You don't say that kind of shit and just say sorry ?? Like I don't want to speak to him because that really hurt me what he said and it was sick for him to say something that low. I just don't know what to do, I will never forgive him. But that's just me .. any advice ?

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There is a difference between saying something you don't mean and saying something like that.. I don't know if I could forgive him let alone talk to him for quite some time. But you also don't want to put your baby through stress if it is hurting you not to talk to him. I say follow your gut on this one girl!

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Oh hell no that's so fucked up . I would never forgive him and wouldn't talk to him at all

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No, not overreacting. I'd never be able to move past knowing he said those things to me if I were in your situation. Like someone else said, it's one thing to say something you don't mean in the heat of the moment and it's another thing entirely to speak the unforgettable words he spoke to you about your precious unborn child. Maybe in time you can be civil towards him for everyone's sake at family gatherings but you certainly don't have to like him or have a friendship with him ever again. I would not make him part of my life but I also wouldn't cut him out 200% if I were you.

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The whole thing sounds pretty childish, but you never have to forgive someone you're not ready to forgive. Brother or not, you can't take back that kind of thing.

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I agree. I don't think I could forgive someone for saying something like that. It doesn't matter of there family or not.

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It was really wrong of him I would be super pissed, but it is your brother and I'm sure in the moment he just yelled anything just to upset you cause he was upset but I feel like he prob does feel super bad about it, I would give yourself some time to calm down and then maybe talk to him about it tell him that hurt you

Am I over reacting????(LONG BUT PLZ READ)

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