My beautiful daughter is two weeks old and my mother in law won't stop just showing up. She waltzes in and takes her next door to great grandmother house. Without asking... I already feel as though I misses a week of bonding due to her 5 day stay in the nicu and now this. I'm trying to keep her on a schedule and I want to bond with her when she's awake. My husband says I need to handle it and not hate his mom. I personally want to be left alone with my baby until I have to go back to work.she can come over but she need to text first. And change she smells like a lit cigarette, she can always take the dog to the park. But for the love of Pete leave me and the baby alone...