my husband is stuck on old ways.

I'm so tired of my husband being so mean to me. I swear not a day goes by that I don't hear him say that my job isn't a real job and that I shouldn't be tired of doing "nothing". 1st of all... Just because I don't have a job like his (construction) does not mean that my job is any less. I have 2 jobs! During the week I work full time at a clinic and during the weekends I'm a caregiver.. I would love to see him handle my week job trying to handle mean customers and handle changing a dirty adult diapers + more for 4 adults in the weekends. And on top of that I wake up every morning at 5clock to drop him off at work because he doesn't t have his car right now. When I get home.. He doesn't help me go grocery shopping, he doesn't clean, he doesn't do laundry, he doesn't cook (rarely he might cook sometim hung but only for himself). He comes from a very Mexican family where they taught him that those things are a woman's job. But I've told him before that he until he's able to support me financially so I can be a stay at home wife that's when I will do everything by myself with a happy face..He got so mad at me this morning because yesterday after a long day at work, grocery shopping, cleaning the kitchen, having to stop and make him dinner because he can't do shit... He asked me to put his clothes in dryer because he "doesn't know" how to use our new machines. Well I thought he had already put his clothes in so I turned it on.. And this morning I wake up to him yelling at me talking shit because I'm worthless and can't  even dry a load... I've told him before not to wash his clothes last minute and not to do it at the last minute of the day. And yesterday when he asked me it was already 10pm and I still hadn't finished cleaning and washing the dishes and I still had to go shower and get my shit ready for work the next morning. I was so tired already and on top of that I have a sinus infection, migraines & allergies. I already tried talking to him telling him how I feel and but he just tells me what I want to hear but he never appreciates what I do for him, he never takes me in for consideration and I feel very disrespected. I didn't even register for classes this semester because I feel overwhelmed.