Like it's literally hard living right now. Everything is based off of money with him. We are full time college students we graduate next semester ( medical laboratory science and elementary education degrees) my husband already has a degree in toxicology and I'm a full time retail team lead(for 4 years), I get paid almost $660-720 after taxes every two weeks. And I only have a carnote which is 280 and car insurance which is 190 and cell phone bill 81 so I have a good bit of money left after my bills and I don't pay them all on one check. My husband mom pays for his car insurance and he only pays for his cell phone bill which is 81. We pay our living expenses with school refunds and and income taxes. We got married a year ago and I still have money saved from the wedding (from gifts and lack of honeymoon 3500) we have money left from this semester refund which is roughly around 1000 andddd I've have a savings from when I started working 4 years ago and I have a total of 1200 I normally take from this saving but I put it back also. Ok here's my problem, we live in Louisiana and I wanted to go to New Orleans for the weekend to a concert. A hotel room is like 330 and I'll pay for food and gas out of my pocket and tells me we can't afford it and I'm like how not. He tells me we need the money. And it's always like this with him, we don't do anything, we never go anywhere I literally have so much vacation time piled up at work I'm being forced to used it but I don't want to use it cause I'll will be sitting at home. We don't have date nights anymore because he don't want to spend money. Now he's tryna control the money I work hard for. He don't want me to do lunch dates with my friends ( I do that once a week), travel to see my parents because of gas money, they live 2 hrs away from me so I just sit at home, school and work and now he's telling me he don't know if he wants kids because they are too expensive. I don't be like let's just spend money all the time. Just only on special occasions...like my bday that's coming up. Or our anniversary or Christmas. We don't celebrate none of them because he don't want to send the money. We were planning on conceiving December 2017 if the lord says the same. I'm just getting annoyed with him and we sat down and talked about all of it but it isn't going anywhere. This is driving me nuts. He always says he knows what's good for us and I'll thank him later. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Do I have a problem for just wanting to live a normal social fun life?