Okay this is gonna be long but I do what to do my fiance has a son from a,different women me,and him also have a 4 month old son together but the thing is his other son is 9 and Idk how to deal with him I am trying hard to get to know,him but he crys about everything I tried talking about football with him and he crys he went with me and his dad to get our sons baby pictures and he cried because he was not getting any done and it makes me mad because I understand that is,his son to,but his son does not like him showing attention to to his,brother and another issue I have is he eats way to,much and extremely over weight to be 9 and he eats and eats and and his,mom want let him be a kid he is,bullied at school because of it and she acts like everything is okay and i have told his dad a million times that he,is,unhealthy and needs to get exercise but he does not,get him enough to,fix the problem i,know this is all jumbled but my question is. Is there anything me or his dad can do,to toughen him up I'm getting mad because he knows what he,is,doing he is just seeking attention cause he is,spoiled oh and he also,cries when we don't let eat everything he ate all his,food then told his dad (you do know you have to share that ) I'm going so crazy this kid and his mom are getting on,my nerves oh and he tells his mom that he don't feel comfortable with me being with his dad but his mom is,married with another son as well