So this is what happened for asking my cousin for a little more money. I took care of her 8 month old son. I would wake up at 5:30am to get him cause she has work at 6am-9am. Then she had a 4hr break. She would come to my house and cook etc. I let her well because she is family right. Well I was starting to realize how it was not worth it for me. Because then she startes her second shift at 2pm-7pm. It felt like way to much time. And yesterday she left before 1pm because her bf called her. Well her bf is a total jerk! He basically called her to just kick her out, make her cry and make her feel useless like MANY other times. Turns out he didn't go to work. So she calls me crying etc and I try to make her feel better. Then she doesn't answer my text. I asked her that if he wasn't working he should pick up their child because she has said he was. So then I get a call from him saying he "was going to work" so he would pick him up at 7. Ok so i decide thats ir! When they come for him I am going to tell HER im going to charge her more because I was only charging her $15 a day! But it was way too long for $15! So I did and she said ok! 10-15min later I get a text from her saying if I she will pay me on Friday and look for someone else to babysit! 😡😡😡 like really? I know HE told her that because I know she wouldn't mind! I didn't even say how much more! Only that i needed a little more. I don't understand how she allows him to control so much of what she does! He has put her through hell and she stays there thinking it's best for her and the child! My SO and I have  been there for her kid since he was a new born. Seems like when they fight the last person they think of is their kid! I'm still in disbelief.