FTM here and im 16 weeks pregnant. Ive had the chance to hear my baby's heartbeat twice now and seen him/her once at 8 weeks. I am beyond happy that I'm having a baby and I cant wait till he/she is born but I feel like im having a hard time bonding with the baby. People havr told me to talk to him/her and i have tried but i dont know what to say. I don't know how to bond with my baby. Ive heard other moms say they soend hours talking to their baby and have all these feelings and can already feel connected to their baby and I dont. I want to be a good mom and be able to have that connection with my baby. I just dont know if im over thinking this or if im just not meant to be a mom. Am i already a bad mom because I dont know how, if or when ill connect with my baby? Will he/she love me? Will I be able to connect with ny baby as strongly as some mothers claim they are? I just want to be a good mom...