Am I alone?

Kelly
I am still trying to figure my baby out. What works one day for her doesn't work the next. I am trying to get a routine going, but it's just not happening. Most days she eats 6 times a day and some days she only eats 5. Bedtime for her is random, she is always tired because she doesn't nap well (she sleeps for about 30 mins and then squirms and drifts to sleep only to wake back up a couple mins later and usually repeats this for the whole rest of the 2 hr nap). I try to feed her every 3 hrs and have been for quite some time now and it was working, but the past few days I have to fight her to finish a bottle most of the time. I just don't know what to do. I thrive on a schedule and I don't know whether to just follow her lead instead... anyone else have a similar situation?