I've found porn on my finances phone multiple times. On two different phones too. He tells me friends send him crap. I used to find jizz all over t-shirts when I went to do the laundry. He will not admit he watches it no matter how many times I bring it up. It hurts me so much, a lot of people say get over it but that's like telling an addict to just get over it. If it's not easy then it's not easy. Part of me hating it is the stuff he expects, he gets mad sometimes if I want to get off too when he just wanted me to get him off. Porn focuses all on the men's needs and I get that vibe from him sometimes. I just want someone to talk to that's feels the same and maybe found a way to overcome it?