Is it bad to lose your virginity in a car?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and will be losing our virginities to each other, but the only problem is that we don't have a house to do it in (parents- we're both almost 18 though) so a car seemed like the next best thing. I didn't think it was a bad thing at all but someone told me it's demeaning to do that, and I don't really understand how? Is it actually bad to lose your virginity in a car, especially when it's with someone you love and have waited 2 years to do this with?

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Car sex is a thing for a reason. If you have a suv, it might be the easiest to do it in: you can put the back rows of seats down and you basically will have a flat surface to do the dirty on.

But if you love each other, anywhere is fine enough for sex. My boyfriend and I hadn't seen each other in maybe a week and we ended up having sex on the bathroom floor because we couldn't wait till we were done brushing our teeth to go to the bedroom.

For your first time, it might be awkward due to the lack of room if you have a compact car / finding a place you won't get caught. It won't hurt unless you don't give yourself to get wet. Some lube might be nice to have handy / he could go down on you to help you relax, get wet and improve your overall enjoyment.

Good luck, hope it goes well! But be safe, condoms or birth control are super important.

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It's just stereotypical is all. Who cares where it happens, it's not a big deal to me at least.

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I think car sex is just awkward because its so small especially for a first time when your nt entirely sure what your doing lol but theres nothing wrong with it

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My first time was in a car. Honestly there's nothing wrong or demeaning about that at all. It can get a little awkward in a car though because of space. If you're both tall (like me and my boyfriend are) you'll have to get in weird positions to make it work lol. Also don't expect the first time to be super magical or anything. It honestly will probably hurt more than anything. But it gets better the more sex you have. Also use protection!