And told us my in laws took him to the pumpkin patch and had his mother thinking we went with him, but we didn't and didn't have any idea about it until his mother asked us how it went when she dropped him off tonight....

Our son told his mom that his dad was with them....

But he didn't know he was with his parents....

This isn't the first time they have over stepped the line.

I'm angry send hurt they put him in the middle of this and made him lie. And why didn't they mention to us they were taking him, they told us they were going to another state this weekend.

Is not fair to the child to make him lie and I feel like they have way over stepped their place.

They have a right of first refusal written in to their custody Agreement that is never enforced (she wanted it so I wouldn't be able to care for him)...

I'm at a loss with how to push forward with this.. any ideas....