She's such a nice person, she can get annoying but who doesn't? My husband asked me today if I love her, because she's always so nice, and she says she loves me. I'm so very lucky to have a mother in law like her, but I just can't bring myself to love her. I do think it bothers my husband. I know this may not seem like a big deal, but to me it is. I don't want to lie about it, but I feel like a cold hearted person. Any advice would be appreciated.