First love and his baby.

So I've been wanting a baby for a long time but I've been waiting for the right guy to have kids with. I finally found him it's just getting around to doing so. I'm 26 so everyone I know is either married or having kids already and I just feel so out of touch. I recently found out that my first love got his wife pregnant and I got so upset. No im not still in love with him anymore, he was a bad person that physically abused me and I just felt bad for his wife when I found out he got married. But when I found out he got his wife pregnant recently I just got so upset thinking, "He doesn't deserve to have a kid, not him!" I don't want any negative bashing or any childish mean comments I just need some womanly support from my fellow ladies. What are your thoughts on my feelings?