not what I was expecting

Well. What I thought was my period coming back after a year & a half was actually spotting as it turns out I'm pregnant 😳 I have an almost 10 month old and my plan has always been to wait at least 3 years till the next one. I wanted to go back to school & just love on my one baby for a while. I wouldn't say I'm "excited" yet but I'm feeling a lot better about it than when I first saw those 2 pink lines. Anyways, my babies will be 18 months apart and right before he/she is born, we will have just PCSd to a new location and then very shortly after the birth, my husband will deploy for 9 months. My plans are not what the Lord planned for me so I must let it go, but the timing of this?! So ladies, for those of you who have raised 2 under 2 (specifically a newborn😅) during deployment or have babies with the 18 month difference, what advice can you give to me? 👂🏽