Should I get a spray tan to hide my insecurities?

Question

So my boyfriend and I are long distance, which makes it super easy to have time to prepare/cover my insecurities. My biggest one is that I have folliculitis (basically little red pimple looking things) on my chest, arms, back, shoulders, butt, and the inside of my thighs. It's so embarrassing and even though we've been together almost 2 years, I always get a spray tan (if it's the summer) or cover everything with makeup. It's October now so I'm kinda worried about getting a spray tan (it always covers all my skin issues) but I feel like I couldn't face him bare with all my skin issues. What should I do?

Answer

Ima be honest with u so listen. I was the same with insecurities. I'm middle eastern which automatically makes me a very hairy person. It's my biggest insicurity. I have hair everywhere arms legs belly down there even my chest area. When me and my BF of 6months stared dating I used to shave every thing like completely. Hoping that he wouldn't notice or feel the roughness of the shaved area. I did that for like 2 months until one day he was touching my stomach and was like babe do u shave ur stomach hair and my life flashed through my eyes. So embarrassed I couldn't look him in the eye. After I was like I'm middle eastern I naturally have hair everywhere and he calmly says babe don't shave them wax them caz if not they're gonna be more thicker. When he noticed I was hurt but to him it was no problem.later that day he opened up to me about his butt😭😭😂😂 he was like babe my hair there is thicker than ur head hair and I died omgg😂😂 so we had a conversation about shaving products and ways😂 I have shoulder acne I been insecure about it  I was scratching my arm and the sleeve stayed up he saw and was like baby u have shoulder since and I was like yea and he touched my shoulder and gave me advice on how to help it get better and told me he gets it too somtimes. I have stretch marks another insicurity of mine. When he saw it and was like let me rub ur little stripped booty😂 and then showed me the stretch  marks on his shoulders and legs🙊 I suffer from anxiety and he's helped me so much through it without noticing just by opening up to me and being himself. My point here is somtimes we girls are insicure about things that don't even matter to boys or normal things. A person who loves doesn't give a fuck about something on ur body that u can't control. My biggest advice to u is open up to him. Be u if u see or want a future with him because if u hide it now one day will come and he will know u from the back of his hands🙊🙊🙊

Answer

Don't waste your money. If he doesn't love you for you and all your flaws he's not worth your time

Should I get a spray tan to hide my insecurities?

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