Bf wants to get into hancuffs, whips, ties. Ya know all the 50 shades stuff. Im totally down, but the farthest weve gone with it so far is he tied my hands behind my back and i like the choking... im a submissive naturally so i love that he wants to do this.... but idk why we haven't gone any farther yet. If anyone else is into this can you give some pointers? Best toys and accessories, lubes? Things to try? Anything for two rookies getting into it? Thanks!!