has he cheated on me ?

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I've just come home for my break in work and I was looking for another USB plug and in my bedside table drawer I found these (pic attached) female white trainer socks... There not mine and obviously not his I've never seen these before... We have a house and a dog and TTC I feel so so low right now I don't know what to do,;; he's in work all day with no phone signal till like 640pm so I can't even ask him yet.:: it's driving me crazy

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Has anyone ever stayed at yours like your mum or MIL, sisters, any female friends? Most of the time there is a legitimate and logical answer as to why they're there. If they were hidden and you had to search for them I'd be a bit more suspicious but if you just stumbled across them I wouldn't be too worried!

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MAJOR UPDATE ;; 
I believe him that he hasn't done anything.... But being me I checked the drawer again last night incase I missed anything, he was with me when I did this - there was a male pair of blue socks in there this time.. Again not mine or his ? Am I loosing the plot here and hiding socks or what ? I have no idea what's going on 😂

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UPDATE; 
He says he has no idea how they've gotten there & swears to me he hasn't done anything.. He also thinks someone has been in the house maybe? Am I being to gullible ?

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please update us when you talk to him

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Hi girls this is my post, I've been ill the past 6 months ( sorry I don't want to mention what was up/is up) so I have been snappy and argumentative as well as stressed out lately.. So have i driven him away do we think ? Oh and we've never had a female stay over, not once and  decorated right through this house so nothing was left over from the previous people either.. In all Homesty my gut is telling me it's true and he has cheated.. I can't cope with the stress at the minute:. Anyway I've left him voicemails and messages.: being as calm about the situation as I can be.. Fingers crossed there's an explanation with proof nothing has happened.

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I would definitely confront him since you found them in the bedroom. It seems a little sketchy to me though but you'll never know unless you ask

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If you have ever had a female over to the house I wouldn't worry. I found panties in our bedroom which of course I immediately assumed he cheated on me. Our house used to belong to his mother and she passed away and his dad hadnt finished cleaning out her clothes. When you can ask him do that but like I said try not to jump to conclusions. If you have never had another female over to the house then I would say be worried but just a side note I've never once stopped to take my socks off during sex 😁

has he cheated on me ?

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