Vent! Time to go guests!!

Amanda • 1st baby n we`re SUPER EXCITED!
I'm not trying to be rude. I know everyone is excited and wants to meet this new beautiful little man but I feel like they are over staying there welcome or just showing up on their own time. Yesterday my friend asked to come over, I said yes but between 6:30 7 as the next feeding would be at 8:30. She showed up at 8. Shortly after she showed up one of his grandmother's called to come over. Neither one left until 10:30!! I'm breastfeeding and him and I are learning. So it's a little frustrating when I have to feed him and there are guests at house. They just kept giving him the pacifer. He does not want that he wants to eat!! I don't wanna b rude and be like give me my baby. I guess because everyone else in our families have done formula they don't understand i can't just shove a bottle in his mouth. Come over for an hr at the hours I said and than go home!! Don't overstay the welcome!! Ughhh sry for the long vent!