Long rant

Ug, people can be so shitty. I need to vent. I freaking HATE myself for telling anyone I was ever trying to conceive. Every single friggin' time I complain of a cold, a headache - anything- it's COULD YOU BE PREGNANT???? ARE YOU PREGNANT? MAYBE YOU'RE PREGNANT?  I went to see a group of friends for dinner last night to catch up, and my (pregnant, obviously) friend says "Aw, I was hoping you'd tell us you were finally pregnant." Like, what do I say to that? Sorry? I'll try harder next time? WTH? My other friend who gets pregnant if her husband sneezes at her then tells me to lift my legs up after sex. Honey, I've been doing some Ringling Brothers shit to get pregnant, please don't come at me with that basic pee wee bullshit. 🙄
Listen, I know some folks do it with the best intentions, but after a while, it starts to feel cruel. In the meantime, EVERYONE is getting pregnant or giving birth. And this is going to sound terrible, but they are falling ass backwards into it. As in, oops, too much wine, now I'm pregnant- TEE HEE!  I know everyone has their own journey and not be all tense and nuts, but I've got to vent.