Okay so I have been lucky enough to have a really good relationship with my mother in law to be. Well we are getting married in November and it is a very small ceremony- only my mom and step dad, our three kids and his mother and dad were to be there. We are not flashy people so less is more for us. I don't have a relationship with my family so I was happy with how small we both wanted it to be. Well recently my mother in law invited her granddaughter, my fiancé's niece, to the wedding. I was okay with it but I told my future mother in law that I still only want it to be us together our nails and hair done together. I don't know this girl very well and I honestly don't see the point in having her at the wedding. My fiancé even said he barely knows her and she is only invited because his mom wants her there. So today he tells me that his sister from another state who he doesn't talk to is now invited because of his mother. She mentioned that she would pay for them at the dinner we are having after the wedding. While I appreciate that, once again i don't know her. That would be like inviting my aunt that I haven't seen in 10 years just because she is my aunt. I am not that type of person. It is taking everything in me not to say something to my mother in law but I don't want to be mean. This day is supposed to be about me and my fiancé but it's becoming what I don't want.