My husband is 12 years older than me and I am 20 what can I do to balance my hi sex drive with his medium-low sexy drive?

I love sex and can't go more than 2 days without wanting it bad but he is not as needy though he does try and help I am sick of saying to him that I need it and he looks at me and complains about how I am sooooooo needy. I hate asking him when he is not in the mood and having to deal with his fake wining :( what can I do that can bridge the gap between my horniness and his lack of it?