So I got married on October 21, 2015 and the guy that I I married seem like a great guy before we dated for a little while we got engaged and got married that's how it is in our community. He had a girlfriend for seven years before hand which I was not made aware of. He told me while we were dating that he dated her for only a year.I I respect the fact that he even told me that he had a long-term relationship I thought he was being honest and I respected that. Just two days ago I found his old phone when I put the Wi-Fi password in a bunch of emails that are popping up because everything started reloading and I see that he's been cheating on me for the past four months with the same girl when I confronted him he denied it. Not only that the night that he CHEATEDon me with her and when he came home he had SEX with me I.I ended up emailing her saying if she was a decent human being she will contact me she called me to again lie and say that they did not set the other and the next they called her again and I said you know I know that you did and then she finally said the truth my husband now is fighting for me I say I want to divorce not only is he fighting with me I have his sister is calling me and yelling at me because the reason that he cheated because I always fought with him.and BTW during the time he was cheating on me we haven't had a single fight he was actually saying how much he loves me more because we were not fighting.  The reason I always fought with him was because I knew something was up a wife always knows if something is up. They both said I did and only happened once and they both couldn't even finish or continue because it felt awkward and it wasn't good to the end of just staying up all night and talking. And the sad part isNEXT WEEK IS OUR ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!!!