So I'm just venting but I'm going through it . I been on an emotional roller coaster with my BF of 5 years off and on ! the man never has said sorry for a single thing in our relationship, everything is my fault, he says some pretty hurtful things but I just take it and move on but the worst argument was this morning I asked him why when he speaks of the future he doesn't include me or my child he said because he knows I can't afford the lifestyle he wants for himself and if I can't pay half the bills then there will never be an our. I was stunned a grown man could let something like that leave his face but I almost lost my mind that he even have the audacity to say such a thing.