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Alright guys, so my boyfriend absolutely refuses to go down on me. Well first off, all he does is fingers me & I can barely orgasm from that. But I tell him that if he would go down on me, I'd cum a lot faster. But he just won't do it. Keep in mind, I go down on him ALL THE TIME. Any advice on how to get him to go down on me?

P.S we've been dating for 2 and half years

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Maybe don't pressure him to do so? I mean if you don't want to go down on him you don't have to. Going down on someone is selfless choice you make for your pleasure or your partners but it should be expected. You'd be pissed if your boyfriend kept insisting on blowjobs if you really didn't enjoy them.

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Sit down and have a discussion. Ask him why he doesn't want to go down on you. Ask if it smells bad, tastes bad, he doesn't know how, it makes him uncomfortable, etc. 
If it's the first few, pretty easy fix. Lots of pineapple and Google. 
If it's the final one, live with it. Don't push him past his boundaries, and don't you dare try to guilt him with your own performances on him. II've lived that life on the receiving end, and it's a damn great way to ruin your relationship and partner. 
Respect your dude.

Also, if you have trouble cumming just by fingering, talk about it honestly. Suggest spicing it up with some toys. Teach him how a clitoris works. You deserve some nice orgasms too, and if he cares about you, he'll be willing to experiment to find what's best for you.

Good luck, duckling. <3 <3

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Maybe try putting some whipped cream on it lol

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Lol he's an asshole and I wouldn't be able to tolerate that. He gets his satisfaction but you don't get yours ever?

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