So my SO and I are not telling anyone the name we picked out for our baby (we also aren't telling anyone the gender, but no one knows we've even found out the gender) and my so called "friends" are now saying they won't come to my shower if they don't know the name of the baby. Excuse me I haven't even told my own mother what we're naming the baby, why the hell would I tell you. Consider yourself not invited. God I seriously hate people sometimes. Rant over.