So. I have a boyfriend, right? He's amazing. He treats me well, his family is nice, we hang out with his friends and mine. He's unlike any other guy I've dated and I love him to death. I'm happy in my relationship, beyond happy in fact, and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. The problem is this: there's this other guy, who I'm FRIENDS WITH. And I can't stress that enough, we're just friends. But we did used to have like a thing for each other. It never amounted to anything other than flirty texts and stuff like that because he moved, but we still talk and we're close now. The thing is, the other guy, we'll call him Tom for simplicity's sake(and we'll call my boyfriend Bob, not that he'll be mentioned that often), but Tom works a graveyard shift for his job, so even on his days off he's awake at night and asleep during the day. Because of this, he's the first person I text when I can't sleep at night or when I have a nightmare(I have PTSD and am awoken by nightmares on a regular basis) and on top of that we've been friends since high school. I've been on vacation and now Tom's nighttime is my daytime and I talk to him more than I talk to Bob. With all of that, I've developed what I think is(and hope is just as simple as) a crush on him. At least that's what my best friend is telling me, and she's usually right about these things😒