was I wrong to leave? please help. TIA
My husband and I have been married for 7 months and October 10th made a year together as a couple. Since we started dating he's been super controlling, possesive and very untrusting (I assume from past girlfriends and I just get the blame for it). He didn't work a real job but for a month and then quit while I was pregnant. He also worked SOMEWHAT with his dad as he can never get fired, it's his dad. He makes $140-$240 a week and blows it on McDonald's, UFC fights, etc. instead of saving for bills we're 2, almost 3 months behind on. He knew he needed a good job but quit the first real one he had and didn't look for another for a long time. He's been waiting on a job that is supposedly going to happen for 2 months and working with his dad on and off just for blowing money. Aside from that, he rarely helped me with Ellie. I can remember she would start crying and he'd hand her to me. Or he'd say I don't want to feed her it takes too long. I was 99% of the time ALWAYS the one to get up and take care of her needs (with the exception of him washing her bottles and doing stuff maybe once or twice) and if I ever asked him to he'd get very frustrated, same thing if I had just put her down and she made one little noise indicating she was waking back up... I tried telling him many times I wasn't happy, that I didn't feel like he truly loved me and something needed to change but in our last argument he told me what is the point in making effort. Point blank I wasn't truly happy. Was I right to leave and say I want a divorce? I feel like I'm letting God down. I love him but that's not how I want to spend the rest of my life. I'm needing reassurance and advice. I'm going crazy here.
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