do I leave my fiancé?

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This is so hard for me. I've been with my fiancé for a long time now. I have a daughter that's not his but he's always treated her life she was. We are still really young and he's in the military. He wants to get married within 4 months or so.. but the problem is.. he lives on the opposite side of the country and that means I'd have to leave my entire family. I have really bad anxiety when I even go in road trips and I don't know how it's going to be living by myself with him and my daughter there. We will be living there for over 4 years and it's stressing me out so badly. I wish there were a way he could just work here it would be so much easier on me 😫 what do I do!?

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So...He takes care of your kid, but the deal breaker is you're afraid of your anxiety of moving from your family...what? Sounds like you need to grow up and decide to stay with your family or make your own

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I don't see why you should leave him over this. Everything seems to be fine in your relationship.
Talk to him and discuss how you feel about leaving family.
My opinion on this however is that you will eventually have to leave your nest and family behind to start your own life and family out there, as scary as that sounds. Family is important but you can't always stick around them forever especially if you have one of your own to raise.

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Nah. Just talk it out. It's rare to find those guys who treat another man's baby as their own. It's not a reason to leave. If the moving idea is set stone then make the best of it. You can conquer a fear at the same time. Even though it's hard but it's not a reason to leave if you really love him. With FaceTime/Skype, letters, texts, phone calls, and Facebook it's not hard to stay connected to family. Plan a date out each year where either family can visit or family visits you. Wish you the best ☺️

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Talk to your fiancé. That's the best you can do.

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If you really love him you'll move with him.

do I leave my fiancé?

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