Bf accidentally sent me porn link!?

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My bf and I were texting and he accidentally sent a link and said omggg don't look at that i didn't mean to send it, I could tell from the link it was porn *pornhub* anyways what do I say or do? Plus I'm one of those girls that don't agreed or see why a guy needs porn when he has a gf...kinda hurts but nether less what should I reply? Or what would you say?

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Okay first, ignore the women who tell you it isn't a big deal. If you don't like it in your relationship then that's fine! That's why it's YOUR relationship. Second, do you have sex with each other or fulfill his needs? I personally don't allow porn in my relationship, I NEVER have and we've been together for four years. So to the woman who said he'll "really move on" that is obviously incorrect as I'm married to this man now 😂 if you don't like it, tell him. If he doesn't respect that you don't like then why would you want a man who couldn't respect your wishes.

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You should pick and choose your battles..if it's something that really bothers you talk through it, but be aware that a lot of men view porn and are in perfectly happy, loving, and respectful relationships.  Maybe it's something he would like to explore with you.

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Is it really that big a deal?

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I'd be like "don't open what?" Act like you never got it and let it go. I think that situation would be really awkward and I wouldn't want that to come up in casual conversation lol.

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I would just ask him what that was all about? Did you respond to his text?

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Talk to him about it. If porn isn't ok with you then explain that to him and why. Maybe see why he still wants to watch porn when he's dating you? It's perfectly find to expect a porn free relationship if that's what you will be happy with!

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I think he sent you on purpose to gauge your reaction. If you love it he will do it more. If you freak out he will apologise and call it an honest mistake and move on.

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Maybe it was intentional because he either felt guilty and wanted you to know or wanted you to get turned on by it. You could just ask him about it too.

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I don't think it's a big deal guys watch porn so do girls. Have you ever watched porn by yourself or with him? My husband and I watch it together nothing crazy but some girl on girls and threesomes. It's not like he is out trying to sleep with hookers. Some guys don't like to "bother" their GF or wife so they watch some porn.