Husband not interested in blowjob, oral,

I crave giving my man a blowie so bad but he doesn't like that I even got a blindfold so he doesn't have to look. He doesn't like it but it makes me crave it more. He won't eat me out either. I feel annoyed he won't try it. Are some guys just not interested? I have an extremely high sex drive and feel deprived all of the time. I don't feel like it's that kinky. He likes anal which I suprising but doesn't like a blowjob....? He acts like his balls and dick are so sensitive that I can barely touch them? Anyone else have this problem too is it just a guything? Also he can hardly last long, how can I get him to  last longer!!???