So as we all know, I'm very different from other pregnant women. I wanted a unique baby shower, unique maternity photos, i wanted to reveal my pregnancy in a unique matter. Everything was going good until the beginning of my big reveal was ruined. Every month I create and post a "Unseen Selfies" Flipagram to Facebook and Instagram. For the month of September, I started showing and there was no way of hiding it from this point on. I put a few selfies that I have not yet posted on the internet in the flip show to the song of Broccoli. "Ain't no telling what I'm bout to be on, I'm beyond all that fuck shit." Anyways. That flip had more views than any Flipagram I've ever posted . My privacy settings on Facebook are really strict so only certain people can see what I post. I was getting a lot of congratulations and compliments from the post. I deleted the "you pregnant ?? " posts cuz I didn't want it to be THAT obvious yet.  😒 anyways. One of my facebook friends had the nerve to tag me in a comment saying they can't believe I and somebody else was pregnant. I'm not even friends with the person who she commented on a status with. So of course she violated my privacy rules. I politely asked her to delete the comment cuz I don't want outsiders to know anything yet. She deleted the comment but then made a status talking bout if you don't want anybody in your business, watch what you post on the book. Do anybody reading this know where she fucked up at? My privacy settings are real strict. So I posted a status saying "People announcing my announcement even though I have yet to announce it." Of course I posted a Flipagram of Unseen Selfies of September on Facebook but I haven't announced that I'm pregnant yet. Anyways, I became the trending topic on Facebook. People thought I was ashamed of being pregnant, folks thought I accidentally got pregnant. People were stating that if I didn't want anybody to know, why post the Flipagram? It's not that I didn't want anybody to know, it was just simply levels to my announcement. I even seen post talking bout "I'm confused, I thought you were a lesbian." I really hate being the center of attention on social media. Out in public is different. I was so over it and overwhelmed by the way people were talking bad about me being pregnant that I just was like "fuck my master plan" and just came out about it. The original pregnancy announcement was going to be the Flipagram first then my silhouette pictures was going to be the ACTUAL "I'm pregnant" announcement. I gave up and just revealed myself by posting a semi photographic maternity photo that I took at home with my new phone. I posted as my Facebook profile pic and then kinda watched everybody else reactions. After being overwhelmed, I deleted my Facebook app and messenger. It's been 2 weeks without Facebook and I feel a whole lot better. I'm probably not going to use Facebook till my daughter is 6 months old. It is what it is tho. 🙄