Bedtime???

Question

I'm at a loss for how to get my head wrapped around conquering bedtime. I'm trying to keep my expectations realistic here too... I have a 6 week old.

I know we should be doing a "routine"... I try to bring him upstairs when he's sleepy, swaddle him, have his white noise machine on, make sure he's fed adequately, and sing/rock him a little bit. We only so a bath a few times a week at this point. I'll get him into an eyes closed-pacifier-falls-out kind of sleep pretty quickly then 5 mins after he lays asleep in the pack and play he's up. I try to let him settle himself for as long as possible, only letting him cry 5ish minutes and then soothing him. The rest of the night he sleeps great in the pack and play giving us more regular 4-6 hour sleeps here recently.

He wakes up at 7 each morning which we started a while ago. Naps ok during the day depending on what's going on...

One day he goes down at 645 super easy (until midnight!) Then the next night he fights sleep for hours and it's a back and forth for us to get him settled, which makes bedtime feel like a nightmare ... I follow his lead at night, when he's running his eyes and starting to yawn, anywhere from 645-9 maybe 10.

Is this just normal for his age and I should just keep this up until he regulates his own schedule?

Answer

We have a schedule..kind of, not really haha. We do what we do during the day and around 8PM we will put him in his PJs and he usually has his last bottle around 9PM and he is asleep by 9:30. He will sleep  for about 10, sometimes 12 hours! I don't know if this is a "proper" bedtime for an 8 week old but that is his schedule and it works for us.

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I started getting ready for bed at the same time. I would change him, put pjs on, and then lay him in bed with me and then nurse him to sleep. At first he would take hours to fall asleep then gradually the time reduced. I did that for the first 9 weeks and he started immidietly falling asleep in my bed after pjs and a bit of milk. 
Then about a week ago I did everything but lay in my bed and after he was done eating I put him in his crib. He fell fast asleep no problem.

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At 6 weeks it's really too early to settle into a routine or schedule. The best is to just follow their lead when they are tired and soothe until they pass out. Babies don't know time so you just have to do what they  want. Try to do the same thing each night and eventually you will get into a schedule!

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Be consistent and keep it up. We've been doing a 6pm bedtime since 2weeks and now at 8 weeks he sleeps from 6pm-3am without struggle.

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My son is 8 weeks and we just started getting into a routine. Usually go to bed around 9 or 10 and up for the day around 6:30 in the morning. Night feedings vary but just started getting 5-6 hours for the first stretch. None if the timings are set in stone, every night is a little different.

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what others saud, plus do not forget that your baby is only 6 weeks old, too young for anything to settle in. 
my boy is almost 11 weeks now and we do have a routine with sleeping through the night, but sometimes he just refuses to sleep and we have to follow his lead. 
just be consistent and patient.

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