Calves as Big as my Thighs

Tori
Anyone have issues with pre eclampsia? Not sure if I'm paranoid but my swelling seems out of control. 38 weeks and hands were huge earlier but okay now, face has been okay I think, no headache or vision changes but my calves are HUGE and not numb to walk on but the skin is numb to the touch (like cheeks after a dentist appointment with novacaine). Had one appointment a week and a half ago with 140/88 blood pressure and protein in my urine but was fine this week. Dr says stuff can happen quick but also kinda blows me off when I talk about symptoms because I'm a ftm I think. How fast is fast when it comes to pre eclampsia? Should I wait it out for a day or so?