wondering if anyone is trying to conceive ?

Starting to get annoyed with myself that I haven't fallen pregnant yet.. and yes I'm so happy and excited for everyone who is posting that they have just found out ! But yet i still wish it was me 😔.. 
would love to know what people have done different... or have done to help them? 
I find it upsetting when girls post "my partner came in me, I'm pregnant ! What do I do ?!?" 
It's like what do you expect from unprotected sex ? Some people get to fall so easily! And yet I'm left sitting here doubtful it will happen 😔 would love to know if there is anyone else on here in the same boat...