How to/Can I surprise my hubby with a BFP after a miscarriage?????

Question

My husband and I had an early term miscarriage a few months ago. Well, since I still get on here and read all the top posts, I was wondering how to do a surprise announcement to my hubby once I get pregnant again (hopefully!). I didn't do one with our first,  because I was so excited/shocked. I'm afraid to do a surprise announcement due to the pure fear that I get about losing another baby...  But I also want to try and not lessen our excitement because of the unknown. What's everyone's experiences?  I also wondered if I should wait till 6 or 8 weeks this time instead of 4 weeks like last time. It would be hard, and I'm just not sure!  Any advice would be great!

Answer

I wanted to do this thing I saw on Pinterest where you both are turned around with white boards and you have to write what you love most about eachother, but as you turn around, yours says were pregnant and someone's there taking pictures! But.......as soon as I saw that line I cried so hard, didn't even pull my pants up, I was running to the bedroom and tripping, I kicked them off, continued running and showed him the test! Couldn't hold it in 💜

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I wouldn't wait to tell him at all!!! Let him be a part of your experiences, plus if you start getting symptoms at 4 weeks (like I did), he's going to wonder what's up with you!
That's my personal opinion of course, to each their own. 
I saw this cute one where a gal came out of the restroom and said we should get takeout for dinner, when he asks why, you say "Because there's going to be no room in our oven!"
Good luck mama! I hope you get your rainbow soon!

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Following this post as I'm in the same boat xx

How to/Can I surprise my hubby with a BFP after a miscarriage?????

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