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When we stared dating everything was beautiful between the two of us, he just got out a long term, long distance relationship. In fact he was my bestfriend LOL didn't even know how all this stared. Anyway a few months later we move in together, and shortly after we found out we were expecting. He called his ex and told her about my pregnancy which I was aware of the conversation but in my mind I was like why? She was the first person he told. Didn't put no mind into it. 2 weeks or so I had a miscarriage, heart broken and devastating for my lost. We had talked and decide to try for a baby. We had many Dr appointment, he was there through the process but no BFP. After 7 months of trying we finally got pregnant. Fast forward- a month before my daughter was born he came at me talking about his ex called and she was coming to town and she wanted to see him so she can have her closure, he ask me if it was okay with me to go? He had a argument because I was trying to think what closure does she needs is been how long since yall ended the long distance relationship? Wtf anyway I had time to calm down and think about the situation. The sameday I ask him if he wanted to have lunch- we went out to eat and I told him if that important to him to do I support him going to meet up with her so she can have her closure as long as he let her know now we having a family and I want her to stop bothering us. Well well he went, I was home waiting for him to return, he got back home I ask how did it go? He say it went well, she told me she finish school, and all this other staff... He refer to her now being his friend 😳 like WTF your friend now? At this point things when left left left if you know what I meant.

Month later my daughter was born- best day of my life ever- when I came back home, as he shower he phone stared to vibrate I reach for it and it was her mmmm 🤔 I open the text and I see all this conversation not to mention the day my daugther was born he send her picture of our daughter. She them call me you baby momma is pretty and so is your daughter. How does she know who I am or how I looked like? I confronted him and has always defend her. So I eventually got tired of it. It got into a point were he change her name to a dude name. She will call and text at all time she fell like. Why is 3 AM and she calling you, everything I confronted him I was wrong for doing so. I fucking got tired of living with that stress in my life, every time I put my finger on his phone I find something. I even block her and he unblock her, them she will call from other number OMG I got to a point were is her or is me so fucking simple. He stated that he talk to her and told her to stop but she won't stop? Do I believe him? It doesn't even matter cuz I was fed up. I stop going through his phone. I will tell yall something that was the happiness thing I have done for myself, I stared to go into therapy for me, taking care of me, worrying about me. Finished school, got a new car, bought a house, I was so focus on me and my happiness that I stop stressing about this man, my daughter was all I need to care about. Best decision ever. Now where he is? Back home with me. He explain that he never had anything with her she across state whatever IDC cuz I'm doing me. I stared this thing were I don't go on nobody phone, is not worth stressing. Girl keep your head up and know your worth. I made it hard for him to come back, never found anything sexual or anything of that nature she just wouldn't stop calling or texting and he felt like I was trying to control who he can be friends with. But I still demanted respect and if you tell your men something is bothering nd he does not act is because he does not care period. Know your worth and don't let no one take away your happiness. Have a bless day