My rant thats bothered me for months

Let me start with this, my husband and I dedicated our lives to the Lord a year ago last month. About 4 months later, we started "church hopping" as we called it, to find a closer church to call home since the church we went to was 45 mins away. Around that time, that's when we experienced our first miscarriage and were broken completely as we were wishing for a girl.

My husbands brother (whom has been his best friend until he himself started going to church with his wife and pretty much turned his back on my hubby), called my husband and said he and his friend from church needed to speak with him. We hadn't told him or his wife about the miscarriage, but I'm sure he heard it from a sibling or his parents.

We arrived to their house, and the "friend" was a so called "prophet" of the church and told us he and my brother in-law had a burden for us. My husband looked at me and I told everyone about our loss. The "prophet" asked if we were going to church anywhere, hubby replied that we were church hopping to find our home church. "Prophet" told us to come to their church that Sunday and we how we liked it.

Sunday morning came, everything was going okay, until my brother in-law kept jerking my husband up to go MAKE him pray and his wife done me the same. And what do you know, the pastor preached about parents losing children and how people need to stop church hopping and stick to one church.

We never felt so hurt & betrayed in our lives. We died a little the day we lost our baby, and a little of my faith died cause I couldn't understand why God was punishing me. But that day at church, I lost all faith in church houses. Not in God, but in churches.

Is it wrong for us to be mad?