Going to a strip club with my husband

So my husband and I have talked about a fantasy of maybe him watching me with another guy, I started thinking about it as an actual possible scenario but don't want to dive in the deep end right away so decided maybe starting with something little like going to a strip club together, maybe get a dance...

Anyway, I was just wondering how many other people have done this and how was it (both the night and any changes in feelings after)?

Also if anyone from Wellington NZ is reading this, where is the best place to go and why?