Feeling inFeminated

My man says he feels immasculated when I offer to pay for things. But I feel infeminated when he offers. We went to Walmart and I'm in search of a new job so my funds are low at the moment and he asked if I wanted his card and my gut wrenched because I could afford my own groceries. Struggle of constantly being independent/taking care of my "boyfriends" my whole life. Anyone else?