Trying hard not to get discouraged

Kelley
So with my 1st LO we were not even trying to get pregnant...BAM pregnant 2 months after we got married. We have currently been trying going on 5 months and nothing. I am trying not to get discouraged and also trying not to stress about it! What makes it worse I work at an OBGYN office dealing with pregnant women ALL THE TIME. And so far we have 2 people currently pregnant that works for me. I tell women all the time that stressing can actually effect becoming pregnant. But here I am trying not to stress about it. I am 14dpo and my cycle is not due until the 7th and neg UPT last night. I have long cycles. Just looking for some words of encouragement. What has helped you guys?