What are the chances of it happening again?? We want to try again and are way more educated as to what can happen now obviously. We lost our bean at 8 weeks but didn't discover it until 10 weeks. I am 36 with 4 older kids 8-17. Should we give up? Will this happen again? What can we do to increase the odds? I've been tested my reserves are fine no thyroid no issues. Am I just too old?