Okay so my last relationship was great tbh I knew that guy since we were kids and I fell in love with him the moment I new that I liked guys...so we got together about 4 years ago...it was great, I thought we were gonna be together forever, but you see my parents didn't approve of him and they threatened a lot of things on him and I if we were ever to date again, so we dated in secret for the remainder of our relationship...and things just started to go down hill, because we didn't get to see eachother often and it's hard to build a stable foundation without seeing eachother...so we grew farther and farther apart, well I met a new guy and we started talking and he was really nice and a complete gentleman, but I was still in a relationship...anyways I went over to my bf's (at the time) house one day to surprise him, and I found a bunch of ultra sound pictures laying around, and they were his exes and so I asked why the fuck he had them, yea it turns out he got his ex pregnant, so I went home bawling and I was gonna dump him the next day but he wasn't answering my calls or texts...this went on for bout 3 days and he finally texts me back and says sorry but I was in a really bad car crash and I broke my leg...he said that his leg was so bad that it's probably gonna have to get amputated...so I said I'm sorry bout your leg but we are done...I felt awful, for the next couple of weeks I would either not sleep or wake up screaming...so I got together with that guy I was talking to and he's a huge sweet heart we've been together for a couple months now...so last week was my sisters birthday and my cousin goes to karate with my ex...so she was talking about him and such and I asked well how's his leg doing? She was completely confused, and said he hasn't had a broken leg in a long time like years...yea I was pissed so I texted him that night I didn't say anything, and he then told me that he's been in and out of the hospital because he has a tumor next to his heart and has a 10% chance of living...and he said that he still loves me and he would do anything to get me back...so the next day I confronted him about his leg...saying how he was an f***ing liar and that it must be fun just hurting people and how I regret ever knowing him, and my lasts words were I never want to see or talk to you again goodbye asshole...yea he never said anything not sorry or wait no I can explain, he hasn't replied and now I really don't know what to do and I honestly don't know if he's lying about the tumor either...but I love my boyfriend to death, but this thing with my ex is upsetting me and it really pisses me off....sorry for this being long I just need advice on what to do...whether i should talk to my ex or just forget about him, or tell my bf (which doesn't know I have been talking to my ex) let me know what you guys think!!
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