Real Sex

Just wanted to point this out. Penetrative sex isn't the be all end all of sexual acts. I keep seeing this mindset where 'sex' is synonymous with penetrative sex, as if it's not real unless it's a penis entering a vagina. Foreplay can be just as satisfying as penetrative sex, and so can oral sex or handjobs. It's off putting to have foreplay as a means to an end, as if penetrative sex is the ultimate goal, when really the entire act is real sex, not just the penetrative part. Comment if you've noticed this, and tell me your experiences with this 'real sex' mindset. Thanks! 💜