anyone get a BFP after 13dpo I'm feeling so discouraged 😢😢😢

Rebecca • 27, TTC my second baby. I love my husband for giving me baby #1 who is the most amazing gift in the world!!
So yesterday at 12dpo I got a BFN.
Haven't tested yet today but I'm started to feel so discouraged 😢 I've had cramping on and off since 2dpo. Cold symptoms 7dpo that lasted a few days. 10dpo I had intense cramping that lasted 10 mins which was very uncomfortable. I've had creamy cm since O day and last few days it's been a milky lotion consistency. 
The last 4 days I need to pee constant, I'm so discouraged that I feel I am out. 
Anyone else get a BFP after 13dpo, all posts I see is women getting them at 9-11dpoÂ