Hubby not initiating sex anymore?!

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Am I the only pregnant chick that still wants it? The only time I get it from my husband now is if I complain about it, he doesn't try to initiate anything anymore which has left me feeling fat and unattractive. He still kisses me and holds me but it's like his sex drive has just vanished... Am I that unattractive?! 😭 and I know for a fact he isn't masterbating either, unless he's doing it at work, which I doubt... But seriously, I'm dying of sexual starvation and it doesn't even work to talk to him. Why is he like this all of a sudden? Anyone else?! :/

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I think mine is afraid to hurt me or the baby. I get it. But yeah I'm raging hormonally. The other night I even sent my husband a link to some porn and told him to watch it before coming to bed since I was in "whale stage". He said I was being ridiculous but hey... I got some! It wouldn't be so bad except my belly is so big I've had to get pretty darn creative to masturbate successfully! TMI? 😂

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Mine is in reverse.. He only hold me when he wants sex. He used to hug me from my back, kiss me instinctively but when I got pregnant, he don't even hold my belly unless I grab his hand. We doesn't talk about my pregnancy much. I only feel wanted when he needs to fill his sexual desire which I got no problem. It still does make me feel unattractive.

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Mine is holding out on me too 😔 defiantly makes you feel unattractive when you already feel huge unattractive to begin with !

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Some guys are afraid of hurting baby.

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We try and have found it quiet difficult because of the bump between us. So the position at the so intimate anymore

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Ugh. Mine is but he's sooo damn lazy he wants me to do everything!! I'm too big and wayyy too uncomfortable to be on top and grinding away - I feel like I'm squashing him. We haven't had sex in a week bc he doesn't want to put in work lol

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Yes! We haven't had sex for about 5 months 😭😭 he doesn't want to hurt the baby! I've moaned and I've accused him of cheating 😂 and still nothing!! We've still kissed and cuddled but that's as far as it goes... he said he'd rather masterbate than hurt me or the baby!! And that's exactly what he's been doing.. I asked if we could just do oral instead and his reply was "no, because it always leads to sex" 😂😂 1 month to go and boy I can't wait to jump on him and give him the time of his life 😏 xx

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Yes! It's driving me nuts

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I would try to not take it so personally. I doubt it's because he thinks you are fat and unattractive. It probably has something to do with the fact that you have a nearly grown human inside of you. I know my husband is absolutely petrified of sending me in to early labor with sex. He says he would never recover if something bad happened during sex. So maybe it is something like that? Or maybe he is dealing with the fact that he is going to be a father soon, and it's becoming very real. It could be a lot of things.

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Same here. I've always had a higher sex drive than him, but it's even worse now. It's hard not to take it personal.

Hubby not initiating sex anymore?!

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