Opinions

Am I overreacting? My husband's family (mother & sister - widowed with 2 kids aged around 12-13) live alone in Southeast Asia. We live in Canada (I moved from usa). He also has a married brother in UK. Anyways I work a full time job while my husband successfully is able to work mostly from home as he's in the IT field and has his own client. We have no kids and I desperately want some. Now that he's become serious about trying we have encountered other sexual frustrations and are seeing a fertility spec. Anyways I have gone once a year on my 2 wks vacation to see my family in Texas. Because my brother is well off we have gone on mini vacations to Mexico and Costa Rica. Anyways my husband went back home for what was supposed to be a month but it got cut short to barely 2 wks cuz of his work. That was in September. Now he's telling me he's going again as his family needs him for little bit. He will probably go for a few weeks but it upsets me. Like he just got back and now he's going again. Twice in the past Monty my family asked me to join them on trips and I said no knowing hubby won't like it. He thinks his trips justified because I have gone on 4...but technically it was 2 trips but just 2 destinations each time.

He also has a very bad habit of sleeping on the couch or our spare mattress. He knows that it bothers me also. We are fine romantically except that every time we try to bd he loses his erections.

I told him he shouldn't go back again as he was just there and he should focus more on me. His response was there's more things than just me! I could understand if he's going to see a sick family member but that's not the case. I heard him on phone with brother talking about building something so I'm thinking they want to do construction work on his family home. But when I ask why he needs to go he won't say until it's finalized.

Talk about stress and I just had my 3rd iui on the wknd after having a miscarriage in July.