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Ok let me start by saying I was told I would never be able to conceive naturally due to complications from endometriosis and adenomyosis. No joke first month trying and bam pregnant! So in your situation its definitely a possibility, I only had a bit of brown spotting which i found out later must have been implantation. I got my positive about 9 to 10 days after conception. I would wait two weeks to be safe and start testing my earliest positive was with a first response early response test and first morning urine. Hope this helps and goodluck 😊
Please read :) Seperated from husband.. no longer trying to concieve.. buuuut
So I had the Mirena IUD removed over a year ago.. I was trying to get pregnant with my husband at the time but it was very difficult. We did have a few DR appointments because my cycles are very sporadic.. my period pretty much happens NEVER. My doctor thinks I have PCOS. To give you an idea: I have only had a total of 2 periods in the last 9 months, both random timings, & lasting 3 days. Yes I was taking pregnancy tests monthly to see if I was pregnant. All negative.
So anyways, I left my husband a few months ago.. details as to why does not matter. Anyways, I didnt rush to go back on birth control because I didnt have a sex life after my husband. DIDN'T being the key word. My doctors appointment for me to be put back on birth control is not for 3 weeks, so I'm curious, what are the chances of me getting pregnant with unprotected sex in the meantime? (I mean it wasn't happening when my husband and I were trying very hard to get pregnant for months.. so I kind of figured it is still very unlikely that I will get pregnant within the remaining weeks before I am put on BC).. however.. I met someone, I did have unprotected sex for the 1st time with a new partner 10 days ago.. and surprise, I had pink discharge in my panties this morning.. the first blood i have seen in months!! Here's what went through my head "Seriously is this implantation bleeding? After all of that time of trying to concieve with my husband & no luck?" Ugh. Im so irregular so this could just be my body deciding it wants a period again. Who knows. But i will be blown away if i am pregnant from the very first time i have sex after my husband & I seperate. FYI, my new partner & I both took steps to be checked for STI's before having sex so I am not concerned about any infections. We just wound up in bed a little earlier than expected. (Takes a long time to get in to see my family doctor) hence not being on the pill yet. So my questions to you are:
1. How soon do you recommend taking a pregnancy test? (because it's not like I can wait to have a late period)
2. Do ýou think this could be implantation bleeding?
3. In your opinion: How high of a chance do you think it would be that I get pregnant considering how irregular & almost non existent my periods are?
The person that I had sex with returns from work in 10 days.. so I would like to be able to have a negative vs positive test by then. We will be using condoms to be safe until i am put back on the pill. My doctor believed my chances of pregnancy with out fertility aid were low to begin with, so im thinking that I am just scaring myself. But the timing is weird right? I'll just be really shocked..if the first time that I have sex, after leaving my husband, I get pregnant. Am I being paranoid?
Thanks for reading!
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I'd say you can test in the next couple of days and get an accurate outcome! It sounds like what my implantation sounded like but I had light cramps with it as well. It could have been your husband who made it hard to get pregnant. I would tell you to trust doctors but my doctor told me I couldn't have children at all. Not with fertility aid, not with anything. I'm 20 weeks now and monitored closely but my babe is growing perfect and healthy ☺️ I hope you get your positive, if you really want it with this man. I feel like you'd make a great mommy ❤️
I think you can maybe start testing in the next day or so until he returns back. If you still get BFN by the time he comes back then I would think it's going to be negative, seeing it's been 10 days since you BD and 10 days he is away. Let's say you did ovulation during your first 😘 encounter then by the time he is back you would/should be at least 18dpo which means that you would most definitely get a positive result with a preg test. In regards to the changes of it happening: well it only takes one little swimmer to reach the egg. These things works in mysterious ways hun. There has been heaps of research about getting preggo pcos .......... who knows your body might have known not to conceive with your husband??? There is always a chance of getting preggo even with pcos/low sperm/blocked tubes/and even when men had the snip done. 50/50% Do you want it to be +? Or -? I think that's the Question:) don't overthink it too much as you will make yourself 😜
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helped so much. I'm totally over thinking it aren't I? lol. the pink in my panties shocked me 😁
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Hope this helped:)
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