How do I tell him....

How do I tell him his lazy-ness and the fact that he's been employed for maybe 2 months in the past year is about to ruin us? I go to work come home clean house cook and he literally does NOTHING but lay around eat and sleep all day. It's making me feel literally disgusted with him. I love him BUT something has to give. I'm not gonna be one of those woman that take care of a man and the kids for the rest of my life. Feeling really used.....