favoritism

So I had my baby girl 2 months ago and she's the third granddaughter of her generation on her daddy's side of the family. Her dads brother is having twin boys and I have caught on that they are playing favorites cuz they are the first boys in the family for 17 years. Now I understand that it's exciting when you don't have a boy or girl for a while in the family and one finally comes along. But the mom is in the hospital right now getting ready to have the twins early and my bf mom is crying and scared and all this cuz they may be coming early. They are going to be fine. Maybe a nicu stay for a month but I know the boys are going to be fighters. Well I almost had my daughter early and thankfully she held in till 39 weeks but not ONCE did she shed a single tear about that. They have bought the boys all kinds of things and even gave them an extravagant baby shower. And threw me a tiny one when I was pregnant with maybe 10 people and some dollar tree decorations. My bf knows they are going to favor the boys more and he even said he will probably do it being they are boys and he wanted our daughter to be one. My point is what is your opinion of playing favoritism with innocent babies just cuz of the gender? I absolutely hate it and makes me cry cuz I know she will soon be shoved aside and forgotten cuz she is a girl. 😥☹️️ maybe I'm overreacting what do you ladies think?