why won't he take me on a date ????

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We've been together for 3 years. And still have yet to go out on an actual date. We both work part time jobs so money is tight but why can't a little money every now and then be put aside so we can go out ? Is he ashamed of me ? Am I doing something wrong ? His only excuse is money and I told him that we can go somewhere cheap or even just walk around but I feel like he doesn't want to be seen with me. I've told him how I've felt multiple times and it's always the same lame excuse. What do I do ? Please help :( I'm getting very emotional about this

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He won't go walk outside with you? Sorry but what the heck have you guys been doing the last three years  when you've been hanging out?

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Wait, he won't even walk around with you? Do you spend all the times you're together at home? Are you sure you're his girlfriend? This sounds weird

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My boyfriend just doesn't like to go out much. We been together for almost a year but we haven't been on many dates. & the ones we were on was for either a birthday or valentines day. The other few was when I bitched and bitched about it. He just enjoys relaxing at home. Also would use money as an excuse.

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I know it's not all about the dates but you've been together for 3 years and not been on an actual date?! That's not okay, it's good to go out and do things as a couple. If I was in your shoes id definitely sit him down and talk to him about it. Maybe even go on a date once a month that's what me and my boyfriend do.

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I understand. We use to have the same problem and with men it's a pride thing. They don't wanna be worried about when they trying to treat you. Mine never think about the the small things until I started showing him.. it's takes time for them to understand and be ok with it.

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I would never stand for that simply because I feel as if I'm worth being treated by my man.

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3 years an no actual date?? That doesn't seem right! Maybe he's not the right guy for you, money's tight for us too but we will still make time to do things together or we will go ride on his Harley which costs us nothing. It shouldn't be that way, especially if you have no kids to look after. Just doesn't seem like a guy I'd want to spend the rest of my life with. If he can't take you on a date.. then what will he say about marriage and babies and stuff like that! What do you do to celebrate each other's birthdays? We go to dinner at least! Then maybe get some drinks after. I'm just curious what you guys do.

why won't he take me on a date ????

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